An Extremely Young Couple Evaluates Their Hazardous And Abusive Drinking And Their Short And Long-Term Hopes, Dreams, And Aspirations

Frank and Linda have been in a dating relationship for eight years. They met while enrolled in the same cultural anthropology class at a small, countryside, liberal arts college located in the Southern part of the United States. While they were just good friends at first, they at long last began dating when they were in their third year of college.

Since both of them came from very conventional backgrounds, neither one of them drank very much beyond the testing stage when they first started to date. As the time proceeded, however, they started to go to more keg parties, happy hours, sorority and fraternity parties, and football bashes. Consequently, they gradually began to drink increasingly more as they progressed in their relationship.

After they graduated, they both found employment in a relatively small city located just about eighty-five miles from their undergraduate college. Then they eventually decided to move in with one another.

With any substantial alteration in a person's life there is frequently something that initiates the particular adjustment in question. For Frank and Linda the idea of having children and buying a new house was this "mechanism of change." Stated more forcefully, for the first time in their lives, Linda and Frank began to reflect on their abusive and irresponsible drinking and the alcohol long term effects on their lives. As an illustration, they started to wonder if they would ever experience an alcohol overdose due to their heavy and irresponsible drinking.

Would their heavy drinking adversely affect their ability to have children? How would they be able to continue spending almost all of their money on drinking if they were to start saving for a new house?

From a different line of reasoning, even though neither one of them ever experienced alcohol poisoning, received a DWI, or experienced alcohol poisoning symptoms, they understood that their irresponsible and abusive drinking was becoming a thorny issue that they could not ignore any longer. All of these inquiries undoubtedly indicated the same conclusion, namely that Frank and Linda needed to comprehend that they couldn't maintain their irresponsible and abusive drinking if their plans, dreams, and hopes were to be realized.

Once they settled upon this conclusion, they advised their drinking friends about their their marital plans, about their goal of buying or building a new house, and about their plans to start a family. They also told their drinking buddies that they still wanted to associate with them but that they would be drinking responsibly from this time forward so that they could begin realizing their future goals, dreams, and aspirations.

Shockingly, all of their pals expressed relief because they too had been reassessing their lives and concluded that their life-styles were too focused on drinking. They also believed that they would have to change fundamentally if they were to become more adult-like and display more concern for their careers, their health, and for their plans in the next fifteen or twenty years.

After their frank discussion with their friends about their dreams, hopes, and plans, Linda and Frank in effect started to have more significant relationships with all of their buddies. The main reason for this was the fact that all of them had a similar perspective regarding their irresponsible and abusive drinking and their short and long-term goals, plans, and aspirations.

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